By sitting down with your child on a daily basis and reading to, or with your child, you will aid in the development of communications skills that will accompany your child the rest of his or her life. There is no better tool to use in communication development than books. It is through books we learn to identify with characters, needs and how properly see that those needs are met. Simply, communication is taught through experience rather than through planned lessons.
Consider, if you will, that the more toddlers can effectively communicate, the less behavioral issues. When a child has vocabulary and grammar skills, they find it easier to communicate their wants, needs and thoughts. If they do not have those skills, it can be quite frustrating for them, as they don’t know how to express what they want to communicate. A child may scream, throw tantrums, or withdraw and say nothing at all, when they lack communication skills. Reading expands a child’s vocabulary, teaches him or her how tone and inflections in voice give different meanings to words and emotions, as well as bridge words and pictures.
Furthermore, reading examples a child to a vast world they live in where not everyone looks, speaks or acts the same. Reading teaches your child of the “bigger picture” of life. By hearing the words, speaking them, and then linking them to the applied image illustrated in books, you afford your child the ability to interpret circumstances and situations. Also, by reading books to your child from a variety of genres, fiction, non-fiction, references, etc., you open up a Universe of opportunity for learning, growth and experiences. The result being he or she will be equipped to communicate with people from diverse backgrounds.
Lastly, reading to your child opens the door for discussions, questions and continued communication. Just simply spending that time with your child strengthens the parent-child bond. More so, topics that seem to be troublesome to discuss can be better addressed after reading something similar in a book and then using that as a starting point. The atmosphere tends to be more relaxed and comfortable for both parent and child. The one-on-one reading time you give to your child will become addicting.